7 Best Signs Someone Is Secretly Crushing On You

Ever wondered if someone secretly has feelings for you? Today, we’re diving into the fascinating world of psychology to help you decode those subtle signs of attraction. Stick around as we explore 7 key psychological signs that reveal if someone likes you.

1. Proximity

When you’re in an environment with someone, the distance between you speaks volumes about your relationship. Anthropology refers to this space as proxemics, a term coined in the 1960s, which describes four proxemic zones.

Social Space: In this zone, people are about 4 to 12 feet away. You generally greet them with a simple hello or hi.

Personal Space: Here, people are about 1.5 to 4 feet away like those you might shake hands with. 

Intimate Space: This is where people are within 18 inches of you. These are individuals who are very special to you, like someone you’re interested in or attracted to. This is where hugs, closeness, or even kisses can happen.

According to human psychology, those who like us often try to enter our intimate space. So if you notice someone getting closer, attempting to touch you, or wanting to sit near you, it indicates they want to reduce the distance. This is a strong sign that they like you.

2. Conversation 

They make an effort to find conversation topics. When we like someone, we want to spend as much time with them as possible, and it often feels like we can never talk enough. We tend to look for new topics to discuss, moving quickly from one topic to another.

Psychologically, this effort signals attraction. Research published in the Journal of Nonverbal Behavior suggests that when someone likes you, they make a conscious effort to keep the conversation flowing. 

To test this during a conversation, pause after discussing a topic and see if the other person initiates a new one. It’s a valuable method for finding out a person’s interest in you. 

3. The Duchenne Smile. 

Think about it, if you had only 90 seconds to impress someone, what would you say? Remember, your first impression is formed even before you speak. Body language, eye contact, and facial expressions communicate a lot. One key indicator of attraction is a smile.

Among the various types of smiles, the Duchenne smile stands out as it reveals true feelings. This genuine smile engages not just the lips, but also the eyes. Research by psychologists Paul Ekman and Wallace Friesen shows that a Duchenne smile indicates genuine happiness and attraction.

When someone is attracted to you, they tend to maintain eye contact while showing a sincere smile. If you notice their cheeks lifting and wrinkles forming around their eyes, it’s a strong indication of interest in you. 

4. They Appear Nervous Around You.

A study published in the Journal of Evolution and Human Behavior found that when men speak to women they are attracted to, they often unconsciously lower their speaking pitch. 

A deeper voice is associated with confidence so they may choose to speak more quietly to impress. Additionally, research published in Adaptive Physiology in 2020 reveals a strong connection between anxiety and attraction.

This explains why we often blush, sweat, or feel anxious around someone we like. The body releases adrenaline, which increases blood flow to the face, leading to those telltale signs of nervousness. 

So, if you notice someone changing their tone, behaving differently, or appearing nervous around you, it’s a strong indication that you’ve made an impact.

5. They Are Curious About You

Throughout your life you meet many people but not everyone wants to know everything about you. Most people don’t care.

However, those who start to like you will make an effort to learn more about you. When someone is interested, they gather information to understand you better. If someone isn’t interested, they’ll keep conversations superficial.

On the other hand, if they like you, they will show genuine interest in your life, listen attentively, ask related questions, and encourage you to share more. They’ll even share personal stories in return. So, pay attention to those who ask lots of questions about your interests, hobbies, or weekend plans. That’s a sign they’re interested in you. 

6. They Give You Compliments

While we might not always directly express our feelings, we often admire different aspects of someone.

If someone likes you, they’ll appreciate even your casual outfits, find your jokes funny, and notice your eyes or hair. A sudden compliment about small details indicates their feelings. 

7. They Always Find Time To See You

After displaying all these signs, if someone still doesn’t make time for you, it suggests they may not be genuinely interested. When someone says, Sorry, I was busy. I don’t have time. I have a lot of work. Take them at their word. They may prioritize something they deem more important.

We all value what matters to us and we make time for the people we care about. So if someone consistently makes time for you, even amidst their busyness, they likely value you and are attracted to you. Next time you’re wondering if someone likes you, keep these 7 psychological signs in mind.

If you notice a few, there’s probably some serious interest brewing. That’s it for today. Thanks for watching.

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